Hello my dear online Love, Damon ... Wishing you a new month filled with Happiness and Love ...

In busy life, We dont have enough time to enjoy and spend time with each other.
At the start of this month, I wish and hope to spend some time with you.
Share all the good memories of our love affection. Happy Lovely New Month.

Kisses and Much Love ~ Nicki

Some say "love is blind", but how many times have you pursued someone only because you thought they were beautiful or handsome? You didn't know anything else about them, so you imagined it. Imagine this formula works the same way whether you met that person online or in 'real life'. When you fall in love you are living in a fantasy....

We are all some sort of unsolved mystery.  Even after all the pink smoke clears and our flaws become so much more apparent, you still can't possibly know all there is to know.  We have secrets, skeletons in our closets yet to come out, and we can change and do the unexpected at any given moment....

So, while you may fall in love with someone you've never met physically (and it is quite possible) - the more important question that you should be asking is if you truly have fallen in love with a real person ...

People generally get attracted to each other based on common ideas, common outlook towards life, common value systems, similar views on important issues. If you happen to know someone over the Internet, you can sometimes feel connected if your views match theirs.

So, face-to-face contact isn't as essential in knowing the other person. One can even argue that not having face-to-face contact can have certain advantages. You may not judge the other person for their physical looks per se, but may get in touch with them at a deeper emotional level.

Consequently, I would think you could theoretically fall in love with someone you've never met in person. But, could such a love stand the test of time? Would such a love overcome the potentially high expectations generated by an online or virtual personality? Certain personality traits may not be visible... Would such a love then be able to come to terms with the reality of physical imperfections or deficiencies?

Even though most people say that outward beauty doesn't matter to them, generally most people value beauty in a potential partner. So, while it is possible that you can fall in love with someone you've never met in person, it is not as possible to predict whether you would in fact remain in love with that person  - once you've met them -


Also, when you do in fact meet a person face-to-face, you may discover many things about him/her that you hadn't quite anticipated. Perhaps, he/she has some embarrassing habits that you hadn't quite anticipated -- or perhaps he/she has some irritating quality that wasn't apparent to you before through his/her online persona. So, while you can fall in love with someone you've never met, whether you stay in love with that person is quite another matter.

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My appending: Of course these are all fictions ... ;)