My dear Robert, Honestly, I don't have a very good feeling after reading the otherwise nice post. I guess you had a purpose with that. It's very rare for me to comment on any of your posts, but I did. I had my doubts because I wasn't sure that you wrote a comment based solely on friendship to your friends. I'm sorry I couldn't ignore that, I felt I had to talk about it. The question is, can we talk about it when something is pressing on our hearts. Or let's stick to not talking about anything like that. Then, however, the relationship cannot be close, because it lacks that without which a true and sincere love bond is indispensable. Honesty is closely related to being able to talk about our bad feelings and being listened to. In a good relationship, everything can and should be said. Problems can only be solved if we dare to say them. Problems should not be swept under the carpet, in the long run, it does not lead to good. In a good relationship, there can be no taboos. There is no such thing as everything being beautiful and rosy in a relationship. Everything needs to be talked about. That makes a relationship really good. By the way, do you know what to do? You talk things over with Wolfgirl, with Boomer's most infamous woman. There isn't a man on Boomer that she hasn't seduced with her texts and pictures. I'm a long-time user on Boomer, I see everything that happens there. I also saw that she wrote about me on your page the other day, which clearly means that you ask her about me, you discuss things with her. What right would she have to write anything about me there if you don't ask her. And what she says will be authoritative? And I also see her private, intimate texts on your page. If you need Wolfgirl's opinion about me, what am I looking for on your page? You don't need Wolfgirl for that. Who am I to you if my presence on your page depends on what Wolfgirl explains to you? Maybe I would even accept it if a woman I respected wrote about me, but I don't respect her even a little, in fact, I despise her for her repulsive behavior. I've already heard one thing or another about her on Boomer and they weren't exactly positive things. And when she won your trust, your love and you favored her over me,  then my hatred for her started. And I have not considered her a decent man since, for I know what she did on my page when he first saw you there. Then the avalanche started, you were happy to welcome her to your page, in fact... What she did cannot be forgotten. Her actions at that time were deeply etched in my mind. She shouldn't write anything about me, because to me she is a human zero. Years before, I already left your page because of her, because when she entered there, from then on, you threw me aside, I was no longer needed. Every time I went to your page, I always found myself somewhere else. And not in front, but further and further back. Think carefully about what to do if you take the word of people like Wolfgirl. I love you with all my heart, but I will always let you know if something hurts my self-esteem, if I have the chance. If they accept me like this, then it's good, if not, then I will draw the consequences. An old heartache has also broken up in me now, I hope this has finally gone out of me, because I talked about it. Thanks for listening. Rosine

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'Douce soirée, ma Rosine chérie, Sweet evening, my darling Rosine,
Il est des mots que l'on ne dit pas There are words that we do not say
Il est des frissons que seule l'âme ressent It chills the soul feels that only
Au fond de notre coeur, le silence perçoit At the bottom of our heart, silence perceives
Ces gestes posés sur le fil du temps These actions on the thread of time
Il est des mots que l'on pense   tout bas There are words that we think within
Ces mots qu'aujourd'hui je t'offre These words I offer you today
Qui sont gravés au fond de mon coeur Which are etched deep in my heart
Que la flamme de la tendresse vienne pourchasser What tenderness the flame comes chase
A l'encre de mes mots, j'aimerais te donner With the ink of my words, I would give you' ...