My dear Robert, Honestly, I don't have a very good feeling after reading the otherwise nice post. I guess you had a purpose with that. It's very rare for me to comment on any of your posts. I had my doubts... I felt I had to talk about it. The question is, can we talk about it when something is pressing on our hearts. Or let's stick to not talking about anything like that. In a good relationship, there can be no taboos. Everything needs to be talked about. That makes a relationship really good. By the way, do you know what to do? You talk things over with Wolfgirl, with Boomer's most infamous woman. There isn't a man on Boomer that she hasn't seduced. I'm a long-time user on Boomer, I see everything that happens there. I also saw that she wrote about me on your page the other day. What right does she have to write anything about me on a public website? Maybe I would even accept it if a woman I respected wrote about me, but I don't respect her even a little, in fact, I despise her for her repulsive behavior. I've already heard one thing or another about her on Boomer and they weren't exactly positive things. And when she won your trust, your love and you favored her over me,  then my hatred for her started. And I have not considered her a decent woman since, for I know what she did on my page when she first saw you there. Then the avalanche started, you were happy to welcome her to your page, in fact... What she did cannot be forgotten. Her actions at that time were deeply etched in my mind. She shouldn't write anything about me, because to me she is a human zero. Years before, I already left your page because of her. Every time I went to your page, I always found myself somewhere else. And not in front, but further and further back. I love you with all my heart, but I will always let you know if something hurts my self-esteem, if I have the chance. An old heartache has also broken up in me now, I hope this has finally gone out of me, because I talked about it. Thanks for listening. Rosine