My darling Robert, The fusion of husband and wife comes with great responsibility. Even in marriage, there is no theory without practice. The exercise is completely unique and personalized. It mainly depends on the personality. And no two cases are alike. Just like no two people are alike. That is why we need a common denominator, especially in marriage. - A rather particular marriage is one where the spouses do not clear up misunderstandings in a reassuring way. I don't know that I received a reply to my messages on Eklablog. Where I tried to clear myself and make amends for my mistakes. And I expected my husband to understand and forgive me. That didn't happen and I'm still missing it. Something cannot be continuous if a piece of it breaks off and the pieces are not glued together. Of course, life goes on, but the bad feeling remains. I don't strive for perfection, but I want to learn from my own and other people's mistakes. If I only blame myself, then I am being unfair to myself. Between two people, there is no such thing as only one party is to blame if there is a conflict between them. Only together can they make things right. It is not possible otherwise. It may be more convenient to ignore the answer, but it is not a solution. Because the bad memory hides insidiously and stays there between couples. As long as we channel things, the templated end result will remain. I think it would be much nicer without the spike. It depends on us. I haven't heard from you for days. What kind of marriage do you think such a marriage is? Not talking to our spouse? That doesn't work for me. This is modest even for a relationship, not a marriage. It might suit a simple relationship. If there is no other way, we will stay like this. Rosine